What the Court looks for
There's no checklist that must all be ticked, but the Court usually looks at whether you: sleep separately; stopped sharing meals, chores and finances as a couple; stopped socialising and holidaying together; told family and friends; and why you stayed in the same house. It's about the reality of your lives, not a single fact.
The two affidavits
Yours explains when and how you separated, what changed, and why you're still under one roof. The second is from an independent adult — a friend, relative or neighbour — who has seen the change. It's short and we draft it from a few questions; the witness signs it before an authorised witness (we'll explain how, including remote witnessing where available).
If you have children
The Court will also want to understand the children's arrangements while you've been living together and what will happen going forward. Our questions cover this.
If you've now moved apart
If part of the 12 months was under one roof and part apart, the affidavits cover the under-one-roof period only.
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